Learning Point - 3 - It takes two
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- Tuesday, February 28, 2017
It takes two
Everything, it takes two to get one, what do I mean? Instead of putting it in my learning point, is more like an opinion, so what do I mean by it takes two?
It takes two people, to have a conversation.
It takes two people, to have a continuous topic to talk about when both given both the effort to talk.
It takes two people, to not to be alone.
It takes two people, to love each other.
So does ourselves as well. Even though we're just one of us, there's two things that we have that always fighting with each other where we don't know which one to choose. Those two are our feelings and thinking.
We might think a lot of things, but are we feeling good about it?
We want to confess our love to that person, but do they think they will like us back?
We want to study but do we feel like it?
We might be arguing with the other thing or other person, however, if both people or both feeling and thinking come together, we'll do a lot of good things together.
Bringing back my first post of learning point, I told a story about this girl, where she put in effort to continue however because of me, who don't give a damn that time, the conversation slowly goes away, slowly fade. Recently I went to take a look at our chat history, oh boy, that bad memories for me.
Everything, it takes two to get one, what do I mean? Instead of putting it in my learning point, is more like an opinion, so what do I mean by it takes two?
It takes two people, to have a conversation.
It takes two people, to have a continuous topic to talk about when both given both the effort to talk.
It takes two people, to not to be alone.
It takes two people, to love each other.
So does ourselves as well. Even though we're just one of us, there's two things that we have that always fighting with each other where we don't know which one to choose. Those two are our feelings and thinking.
We might think a lot of things, but are we feeling good about it?
We want to confess our love to that person, but do they think they will like us back?
We want to study but do we feel like it?
We might be arguing with the other thing or other person, however, if both people or both feeling and thinking come together, we'll do a lot of good things together.
Bringing back my first post of learning point, I told a story about this girl, where she put in effort to continue however because of me, who don't give a damn that time, the conversation slowly goes away, slowly fade. Recently I went to take a look at our chat history, oh boy, that bad memories for me.
I feel sorry for myself at that time and I'm sorry to her, sincerely.
There're other things that need two object or people to get one, true there's things that just need one thing, but have you guys ever experience the happiness when your feeling and thinking match?
Start thinking
Oh boy, I'm ready to say about this topic. The only thing that most human hate to do when they're relaxing and having fun and resting. It's to think.
I don't or maybe hate people to ask me to think when I'm in my comfort mode, is just the feeling (In the end I didn't think because both of my mind and feel doesn't work together)
The thing that I don't like is that, people who had learn the basic, and or once learnt this topic just a few days ago or few weeks, I get it when people don't remember this question, cause we're human not robot. But, asking me way too much question about the topic you've learn before, it makes me think that you either didn't listen in class or just don't even care about thinking about it.
If you start thinking (to solve problems), there's certainly a lot of way to have find your answer or solve your problem. Nobody is stupid in this world, is just you don't think, even though you might come out stupid idea or stupid solving problem, at least you've tried than someone who don't try.
So a few weeks ago, my friend asked me to go badminton cca that day, so I asked my secondary friend as I would want to have the full court for ourselves without anybody interfering us.
When that day arrived, one of my friend, he's late because he went to have his breakfast first, so we went on to the badminton court there, I left my phone in my bag for 1 hour and I kept looking at the entrance and thought he would be here while we're playing. 1 hour later, he didn't show up, I went to check my phone and found out 30 mins ago he texted me asking me where am I. So I replied him back but he didn't see the message. I spammed his chat box but still he don't want to reply.
I thought to myself, is there anything bad happen to him when he come here? I tried called him but he never answer. Fast forward to night time, I went to chat with him on steam. I asked if he went back home? He answered yes. After all the conversation with him, I got angry not because he didn't come, but because he went home without telling me or us.
He said this "sorry arh I stupid arh", and I myself thought, nobody in this world is stupid, only people who do not think. He didn't come to the badminton court just because we're not there and no point of texting us and lazy just because you didn't come? What are we even to you? If we're not in our meeting point, you already knew we would be in the badminton court, not like you don't know where isn't it? Why don't you just come?
Maybe he don't have the right mind to think, but at least text us that you going home or replied me.
If you read this, there's no stupid people in this world, only people who don't think, this will be in my life for now.
Thank you for reading
Written by : Rongyi